Failure is a lie 🙅🏻‍♀️🚫

HAPPY THURSDAY LOVES! 😀

I am super-excited to tell you, like.. UPPERCASE EXCITED,  that tomorrow we are starting the Refocus Challenge!

ON MY BIRTHDAY THAT IS! 😀

and you know what else?

We are meeting LIVE my love, LIVE directly from my screen to yours! 😀

We’ll get together to shift + refocus on what MATTERS because we knooooow what we focus on expands! We knooooow it, we knoow  that obsessing over NOT having that *one* thing which seems to be the missing key to make us full and happy is just pushing it farther away. We know all that….yet we fell off track.

We can’t help but feel stuck because that *one thing* in life hadn’t happened yet.

The Refocus Challenge {a.k.a. Shift Your Perspective and Get What You Want!}  is a  whooole 5 days of prompts with THREE live calls to get us connected, shifted and in the flow.

We start TOMORROW  June 14th! – on my Bday  🙋🏻‍♀️🎂
It’s celebration time! 🎊🎉🥂 {with you! 👯‍♀️}

We will meet at 6pm CST on my Facebook page. Easy peasy to find like that!

Here on this link you can check what time that will be in your part of the world.

and then…..

meet me at THAT time, right here.

To make sure you really don’t miss it, here are a few extra steps you can take:

1- Like the Page

2- Click the 3 dots

{see screenshot below}

3- Click the following tab

4- Click “get notifications”

5- See first {this one is extra, extra! 😀 }

Got it? YAY!

’cause you know love……you really don’t want to miss those next 5 days.

I have LOTS to talk about on this topic {refocusing on what matters} and I have a ‘lil story for you on it.

The other day I was talking to someone about the things that makes us happy.

Specifically about doing those things that makes us happy, you know… not just thinking about that one day when all will be well and we’ll actually dedicate time to it. We were talking about making it part of our lives right now.

So I asked her why she wasn’t going for it now? What was stopping her?

And then we landed on Failure territory.

Of course! That dreadful fear of having it all wrong and crashing down in disappointment at the end.

Who hadn’t felt that fear?

And here’s the thing I want to remind you of….

You can’t fail if your goal is to be happy.

I’ll say it one more time to let it really sink in:

You CAN’T fail if your goal is to be happy!

If that one thing you have been postponing makes you happy, you can’t fail if you go for it. It will fulfill its purpose and you will accomplish your goal – to be happier.

Imagine you are out there remembering the days you use to write/paint/dance/sing/all the good stuff and right now the calling to go back to it is there, coming through and you avoid it because you are afraid of going for it and…. failing at…. being happy by doing things you love?

No sweets, you can’t fail at doing something that lights you up.

Sorry to break the news to you so ruthlessly! 😀 but the result is inevitable and unavoidable  –  if you do things you love, you WILL feel happier!

Now here is where the problem {and fear} actually lies:

The pressure you are putting on yourself to “make it happen” as business, income generating or anything of the sorts is the issue.

The problem is the pressure of ‘making it happen’ once you go for it. Seeing it through those lenses is a joy killer. The reason you wanted to it in the first place was to feel that aliveness within again. That pedestal-high-stakes view? Is unnecessary and must be let go.

Don’t get me wrong thou – I totally believe we all can create income/support/businesses out of our the things we love to do.

But by putting so much pressure on yourself to turn your special gift into something beyond its original plan {fulfillment and happiness} you are killing all the joy of something that otherwise would naturally light you up.✨

And that my love is a recipe for disaster.

Remember WHY you wanted “IT” to begin with; remember WHY going for it was important – to feel happy. To feel joy. To connect with your soul and feel it. To feel alive and fulfilled.

Re-focus!

Refocus on what really matters and you’ll see clear as day – you can’t fail by ‘going for it’ when your goal is to be happy.

And there is so much I have to say on it! — Clearing out the noise and refocusing on our purpose, listening to our soul, fulfillment from the inside out…..

so.much.to.say!

So much so that I created a whole course on it actually 😀

And tomorrow we’ll get our feet wet on how to go about it – letting go, shifting perpective, focusing on what matters and creating a Plot Twist to our own stories!

LIVE my love, we are starting tomorrow and LIVE.

Don’t forget:

• 6pm CST {check your time zone here}
• Meet me on my facebook page.
• Bring pen + paper! We’ll get to work right there! ;))

Talk to you again SO soon! 😀

EXCITED! ✨🎉

Smooches,